Dating marriage or friendship
Complaining about being “friendzoned” is incredibly harmful to our relationships and can cripple our capacity for both healthy friendships and healthy relationships.
The friendship-first approach is not an isolated theory. Our existing friends have always been our best source of referrals.
I mentioned my predicament to Jessica, and she excitedly revealed that her good friend had just moved to the city I was visiting.
She quickly connected us via Facebook, where her friend and I immediately hit it off and subsequently spent the whole weekend together.
This friendship-first approach has fundamentally changed my understanding of dating and relationships.
Observe what happened next…A year after meeting Jessica, I needed to travel to a new city for work and I realized that I had no place to stay there.
Over the course of our time together, we talked about plenty of our romantic and sexual preferences, but neither of us pressed for anything physical.
Mouse Mingle has four options to choose from on the “Here for” question: Friendship, Park Pal, Dating, and Marriage. Enjoying the same movies, books, music, food, memories, and countless other experiences is what makes a relationship magic…
Mouse Mingle is about our shared passion for Disney, Star Wars, Pixar, and Marvel… Shared passion – or at least shared interest – is how people REALLY connect with each other on a meaningful level.
Plus, everyone has their own tips and stories, so sharing those with someone at the Park is pretty awesome. And lots of people have dated, and got married, and had babies… That might mean finding someone to get to know and build a relationship with… With the hope and expectation of a meaningful and magical long term relationship.
Of course, at this level, the time commitment is more than just an hour for some food and conversation.